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 Monday, March 1, 2010
   "Happy 30th Birthday, Jason!"

   Yesterday, Nancy and I were in Cambridge at my son Jason's 30th birthday party, but today's his actual birthday, so Happy Birthday, my son!




 Tuesday, March 2, 2010
   "Happy 17th Birthday Tiger Lily!"

   And today, our dear old aloof it's-not-that-I don't-like-you-it's-that-I-don't-care-about-you cat turned 17. She's getting old. 

 
 
 Thursday, March 4, 2010
   "$1,407.00"

   Yesterday, my little Toy(ota) truck was in the shop because it needed a bunch of work before getting inspected. It got a new exhaust system, a new catalytic converter, 2 new rear tires, a tune up, oil change, and a couple of little things fixed, too.
   However, because they had to clear some computer codes in the process, they recommended that I drive it for a week before taking it in for inspection because evidently it sometimes takes a while for the codes to reset. But, since my old sticker had expired already, I didn't have much choice but to take it in and drive with a REJECTED sticker (in this state, you can do that for 15 days in most cases). But the good news is that it passed without any trouble at all. YAY!
   However, when I mentioned on my Facebook Fan Page that all told it cost me $1,407, that entry generated more response than anything else I've ever posted there. I guess Pain in the Pocketbook really touches a nerve around here! 
 
 
 Sunday, March 7, 2010
   "Toys on Stage"

   For maybe the 7th or 8th or maybe even 9th year in a row, I've been in charge of the childcare program at the Green Fields Market annual meeting.
   Actually, I should probably say Franklin Community Cooperative --- their official incorporated name --- because about a year ago, Green Fields Market (which is, of course, in Greenfield MA) bought McCusker's Market in Shelburne Falls MA, so it's not just the Greenfield store's annual meeting, it's for both stores. So:
   For maybe the 7th or 8th or maybe even 9th year in a row, I've been in charge of the childcare program at the Franklin Community Coop's annual meeting. Like last year, this year's meeting was held in the Buckland-Shelburne Community Center in Shelburne Falls MA.
   The village of Shelburne Falls is somewhat unusual as villages go in that not only does it straddle the Deerfield River, but it also straddles the Buckland/Shelburne town line... it's actually in two towns! (It's also home of the wonderful and unique in the entire world Bridge of Flowers, which spans the river between the two.)
   So, the Buckland-Shelburne Community Center has two large rooms (both of which have stages!) and a full kitchen, so it's an excellent place for a food coop to have it's meeting. Before they bought McCusker's, the meetings were always in these little cramped spaces in Greenfield, none of which really had enough room for what the coop wanted to do at it's meetings, so it's wonderful that there's now an appropriate space available.
   So... as I was about to say before all the asides: they set up the meeting in one room and the food and children's program in the other. First we greet; then we eat; and then we meet. So my space during the greet and eat parts is the low stage in the front room. It's got two steps up to it all the way across the front, so it's very easily accessible but also has very clear boundaries. I bring a whole bunch of stuff left over from my family day care days and set up all the toys on the stage. Hence "Toys on Stage".
   Each year, I don't know what's going to get used and what isn't. Some stuff always gets used: my big yellow metal Tonka dump truck, the Giant Tinkertoys, the kitchen set, the cardboard blocks, the dress-up hats, the art supplies. Last year, the books I brought were very popular, but this year not a single book got opened. Last year, there were a boodle of tweens who were very interested in all the board games and card games I brought, but this year: nada. And so it goes.
   But my favorite part this year was 11-year-old Aden who sat next to me at the game table pretty much the entire time he was there and tried to tackle every single strategy challenge item that I brought, the classic Ball in the Cup being a prime example. Now I have a lot of these strategy things, and brought at least a dozen of them. The ones that simply required physical skill (like the Ball in the Cup), Aden got right away, but the ones that had multiple levels of difficulty, he started at the hardest level every time and was, of course completely stymied each time,  too!
   But then I handed him my Jacob's Revenge Bottle Puzzle, and he was hooked for the rest of the evening. All you have to do is make the ball touch the cork It's the most devious, elegant, frustrating, and oh such a simple solution puzzle I've ever seen... it's just that most people just plain can't come up with the answer. And with more than an hour of trying, Aden didn't either. But we sure had a FUN time together while he was working on it, though!
   Once the meal is over and the meeting begins, they clear all the food out of the way and we get to use pretty much the whole room. But I still keep all my stuff on stage because at that point, our local hula hoop master (mistress?) brings out several dozen fancy home made hula hoops an a wide variety of sizes and that takes up the whole rest of the room! What FUN!!!
 
 
 Monday, March 8, 2010
   "Three Amigos"
   At the regular monthly meeting of the Hats Off Performers Guild at Pioneer Valley CoHousing in Amherst MA today, there were only three out of seven of us there until the very last minute. It's happened a couple times before; and each time, although to some it might seem like rescheduling would be a good idea, it always seems a little special to me because we get to be just a little bit closer, just a little more intimate, just a little more personal because the group is so small.
   We also usually do something a little different, too. Sometimes we end up just schmoozing the whole time instead of following our usual format. Sometimes we take the opportunity to get outdoors. Today, it was the latter: the three of us went for a really nice 34-minute "walk around the pond".  
   That's in quotes because we didn't actually go all the way around the pond this time. We headed up the dirt road just north of PVCH, down a paved road, and then on the spur of the moment instead of continuing on the paved road down and around the pond, we cut through the woods on a trail that circuited along the very edge of the pond on the same side of the pond as the roads we'd been walking on. It was a terrific half-hour walk in the sun with my buds. We were joking and laughing and sharing funny stories pretty much the whole time.
  And then, just as we were about to leave, another member (who lives there at CoHousing) got back from a gig and shared a little with us about his very recent 2-week trip to Argentina to take authentic tango lessons. (Really.)


 Tuesday, March 9, 2010
   "It Will Only Take You 15 Minutes."
   So, our dryer stopped working yesterday in the middle of a load. I pried the lid off and noticed that the belt on the drum that makes it go around was missing. So Nancy & I drove half an hour down to Salemi Appliance in Springfield MA where I spent $10.63 (beats $1,407.00 by a long shot!) on a new dryer belt.
   I found a video on-line on How to Replace a Dryer Belt. It said several times: "It will only take you 15 minutes." Now this exact same thing happened two years ago and it took me over an hour. Of course, I didn't have a clue how to do it then. But thanks to this video, it really did only take me 15 minutes. YAY!
   (Of course, I also ripped a hole in the exhaust tubing when I pulled it away from the wall, but that was just a few minutes with a roll of duct tape.) 
   I usually do laundry on Mondays because I usually have gigs on the weekends and I want to have my gig clothes all clean and ready to go after that just in case. But since the dryer wasn't working yesterday, I'm doing laundry today.
   And now, I have to go put my clothes in the dryer. I'm glad it works.


 Wednesday, March 10, 2010
   "Flowers, Walk, and Shopping Carts"
   My lovely wife and I did our annual visit to the Smith College Greenhouses annual Spring Bulb Show today: it's the end of winter and here's two greenhouses just brimming with flowers! You can smell them as you enter the foyer; and when you actually go into the first greenhouse, the aroma is just so, so powerful.
   It runs for another week, so if you're in the area, you deserve to be there. (BTW: the Mount Holyoke College greenhouses flower show is also going on now, so if that's closer....)
   Then, after a good hour of flowers, and ferns, and cacti, and the jungle room (my favorite), we went on one of Nancy's favorite walks: the trail along the Mill River that starts across the road from the greenhouses.
   Pictured at right is one of my favorite spots along the trail. I just love exposed root systems. I think they're just awesome! And as you can see, this one is rather extensive.
   When we got back to the trailhead, we ambled over to the Smith College boathouse where Nancy took the photo below. Watch out! That ice is really thin!
   And then, after supper, I was at the regular monthly meeting of the River Valley Market Outreach Committee. RVM is the awesome new food co-op we started in Northampton MA in 2008. It took 10 years of planning, but now we've got the best grocery store in town.
   Anyways, I've been on the RVM Outreach Committee since the very beginning in 1998. We do the events. And --- get this! --- right now we're in the midst of putting together the River Valley Market Precision Shopping Cart Drill Team (!) for the biggest parade in town: the Northampton Gay Pride Parade which is coming up in May.
   And in case you don't believe there's such a thing, here's a link to a video.
P.S. We're not alone: librarians have book cart drill teams. In fact, they have a national competition!


 Monday, March 15, 2010
   "Facebook Photos"
   I spent 4 hours today creating a new album of photos onto my Facebook Fan Page today. It's called "Other FUN Pix" and I think it's got a little something for just about everyone.
 


 Tuesday, March 16, 2010
   "A FUN Card Game"

   I was reading some old Halo and Sprocket comics last week (They really float my boat!), and on the inside of the back cover I discovered an original card game called Gopher invented by the author Kerry Callen and his son Chris. I'm always interested in (peaceful) original games that all-ages can play, so I wrote to Kerry and asked if I could reprint the page on my website. I got back the following reply:
   "You have my permission to reprint the Gopher page. Chris is my oldest son. One day, he sat down next to me with a deck of cards and said, "Let's play Gopher." I asked, "How do you play?" He replied, "I don't know yet." We took turns making up the rules. It ended up being a really solid, FUN card game."
   So, you'll find the rules to the game (with art by Kerry Callen) under the red "More Fun Stuff" button over there on the left side of the page, then scroll down near the bottom and click "TREVOR's Recommendations", then "Card Games", and you're there. Or, to get there in one step, just click the "Gopher"link above.
  
 
 Wednesday, March 18, 2010
   "Parachute Games Photos"
   Spent a little over an hour this evening updating the Parachute Games photo album that my lovely wife made for me when she put together my Facebook Fan Page in January. (Thanks, Bunny!)I titled, dated, placed, and tagged all the photos. It was FUN to remember all the gigs an I went through the photos.
   This one is from last year's Autism Resource Center of Central MA annual walk-a-thon  in Worcester. They called me recently about doing a return engagement. This will be my third year in a row at this amazing event.


 Friday, March 19, 2010
   "One VERY Busy Day"

   1. I got up and checked my email and goofed around on-line for about half an hour. 
   2. Then I went right upstairs and finished my inside wall that I'm been working on this month. YA-HOO! IT'S ALL DONE!!
   3. Then, after lunch, Nancy and I went on our favorite local walk: the trail from the old Northampton Moose Lodge in to Fitzgerald Lake (pictured right). It was a sunny 72 degrees out and absolutely gorgeous!
   4. When we got back, I worked on my backyard wall project (remember that from last Fall?) a little while until supper time.
   5. And then after supper, I was at the American Legion Hall in Northampton MA performing at Brenda Fydenkevez & Linda Herfurth's 50th birthday party where it was a loud crowd that made me work hard. It was kind of a tough crowd, but I don't mind when they make me work hard. The people who wanted to participate all had a good time, and I got lots of nice compliments afterwards, including very nice comments from both birthday girls!
   6. Got home a little before 10:00pm, and was back on-line answering emails and updating my blog until midnight.
   7. And now I'm going to just relax and not do anything important for a couple hours before going to bed... because I deserve it!


 Saturday, March 20, 2010
   "Mount Toby with Don & Barbara"
   Our good friends Don & Barbara came down from Vermont for a visit today. I always like it when we get together. Don's been my best buddy since the 80's, and Barbara is wonderful, too.
   We often go hiking when we get together --- both when they come here and when we go there --- and this time was no exception. We decided to do the Mount Toby tower road in Mount Toby State Park in Sunderland MA. It's a nice, easy, gently graded hour and a half walk up and an hour back down, with no really steep parts, and a great view from the top. There's picnic tables up there for those who brought a lunch, and a fire tower to climb at the top. And if the fire rangers are there, they often invite you into the cabin at the top of the fire tower, too!
   Here's a picture of the very "cobble-y" Mt Toby Conglomerate --- a type of rock peculiar to Mt Toby. It's not really visible in this shot, but it's got lots of hunks of stuff in in it: like rocks inside rocks. It's rather remarkable to see it up close.
   Well, we had a great time, had a delightful walk (with lots of laughs!). We were all thinking that our trip might be cut short because Don might not make it, but it turns out our fears were totally unfounded: Nancy's ankle gave out about 2/3 of the way up, so we turned around and headed home to a delicious pasta & salad supper prepared by my lovely and culinarily talented wife. 
P.S. And Don was really grooving on Nancy's homemade pesto. Many an eyes-closed yumMMmm during that meal.
 
 
 Sunday, March 21, 2010
   "Yard Work"
   Nancy & I spent pretty much all afternoon working in the yard today.
   She raked out all the borders, and I worked on my backyard retaining wall project and picked up her piles and dumped them over the edge of the cliff into the swamp next door. (There will be some interesting stuff growing on the edge of the swamp this Spring!)
   First, I put in another anchor cable. There's one more to go, but there's a bunch of as yet unused railroad ties in the way of that one, so the final cable is going to wait until I use the remaining ties.
   Then I dug up the three remaining forsythia bushes that I didn't get to transplant before the snow flew last winter, raised the dirt level under them about a foot and a half, and put them back in the ground in the same spots, but up to the new ground level.
      For those of you who came in late or have memory recall like mine: last October, I began working on a 75' long and about 3' tall retaining wall that goes all the way across my backyard. The back edge of our yard used to slope off about a 5' drop over about 10-15' as you can see in the photo. I'm building the wall because I'm going to put a stockade fence back up around my backyard like we used to have, but I don't want to put it up somewhere down the slope because it's intended to be a privacy fence. So I'm bring the back of the yard up to level with a retaining wall. I finished the main part of the wall last fall and got it about half backfilled with dirt. But a year ago, I had put in a long row of forsythia bushes across the back partway down the slope. So after I finished the main part of the wall last Fall, I dug up the bushes one-by-one down the row, brought the ground up to the new level, and replanted the bushes in the same spots except higher. You can sorta see how the bushes are much lower than the wall in the above mid-construction photo from last Fall. And that picture was taken when I was less than halfway done... there were still two more tiers to go on the top, so the bushes were way below new ground level.
  So anyways, the ground froze last winter before I got the last three bushes up to level. So that's what I'm talking about here: I did the last three bushes in the row today.
   Now there's only three things left to do: 1) make a little 3' section of wall on the street side perpendicular to the main wall, 2) put in the last anchor cable, and 3) get a lot more dirt to finish backfilling behind the wall... and then it's finally done.
   Then I put up the fence.
 
 
 Monday, March 22, 2010
   "Happy Birthday to Me!"
   I turned 54 today.
   Successfully goofed off all day. Didn't do a lick of work of any kind. Read science fiction in bed for an hour before getting up. Did two big crossword puzzles over breakfast. Beat my high score on BookWorm. Played around on Facebook for quite a while. Did my email. Picked up a cool old card table and a big humidifier through Freecycle. Nancy took me to Amherst Chinese Food for dinner where I had one of my favorite meals: Mock Goose and Triple Green Jade. When we got home, it was time for birthday cake --- her awesome home-made chocolate cake (YUM!) --- and vanilla ice cream.
   Now it's about 12:30 in the morning and I'm going to get another piece of that cake and go watch a movie before bedtime. 
 
 
   "The New Wall"
   My lovely wife took some pictures of the new wall I built upstairs for me today. Here's some pix:
          
 
 
 Wednesday, March 24, 2010
   "My Dirt Prayers Are Answered!"
   Thanks to the wonders of Freecycle.org and the kindness of Sherrie Marti, I now have a source for all the free dirt I need to finish my backyard retaining wall project. (See the March 21st entry above for more details about that.)
   I put a WANTED: FREE DIRT ad on Northampton Area Freecycle yesterday, and fairly soon after that Sherrie sent me a note saying she has a "mountain of dirt" just waiting for me.
   So today, I took the cap off my truck (been waiting all winter for that!), grabbed my shovel and work gloves, drove the 15 minutes to her place, shovelled my little truck full of dirt, drove home, and shovelled it out again.
   And that's what I'll be doing with most of my free time for the next week (or two!)  until this phase is through.
   YAY!  Thanks Sherrie!
 
 

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   See those two bumps in the center of the map above just north of the two buildings? That's the mountain of dirt I'm digging into and importing to our back yard! So far, I've taken what would look like about half a millimeter off the east end of the bump on the right. (BTW: That white slanty line of stuff to the left of the dirt piles is 5 huge rocks, each about the size of a VW Bug!)


 Saturday, March 27, 2010
   "Don & Today's Dirt Report"
   This morning, I got up early (those who know me well know how uncharacteristic that is!) and drove up to Bellows Falls VT and helped my buddy Don move some big stuff over to his old house
in Westminster West VT. They're getting all new windows for their house and needed to make room in their basement to stack them up in between delivery and installation.
   It only took about an hour (I got up way too early!), so we hung out for several hours, and after they fed me a tasty and healthful lunch, I drove south.
   But I didn't go home. I went to the dirt mountain in Williamsburg.
   I told you on Wednesday about hitting pay dirt (pun intended). Well, not only did I get a load of dirt on Wednesday, but I got another on Thursday, and two on Friday.  So I was getting another load today. 
   There's good news and there's bad news.
   The bad news is that it rained last night, so when I drove into the field today and onto the bare dirt from where I'd cut the mountain back over the past three days, my little truck immediately got stuck in the mud. It took me 10 minutes of forward and back, forward and back, forward and back to get my tires back on the grass.
   The good news is that as soon as I was unstuck and wisely backed up to the dirt mountain on a different side, the owner Sherrie came out and fired up her blue tractor-loader. It took 20 minutes to got that diesel started since it was below freezing last night, but once that baby was happily putt-putting away, Sherrie filled my truck with four bucketfuls in about 10 minutes. Saved me an hour of shovelling! 
   Sherrie said she'd be glad to fill me up any time I showed up and she was there, too! So I want to be there when she's there more often now. 


 Sunday, March 28, 2010
   "The Return of Amar's Potlucks!"

   It's been quite a while, but I'm just thrilled to report the newly reinstated regular monthly Amar's Live Foods Potluck at her home in Leverett MA once again! This was a weekly event for most of a decade... and I was there pretty much every week. Then she stopped doing it for a long time. Then she held them very sporadically. But as of last month (when I couldn't go --- wah!), she's now hosting them the last Sunday of every month! Yay!
   Our dear friend Amar Fuller is one of the most amazing, wonderful, friendly, open, peaceful, affirming, wise, and deeply spiritual people I know. I'm honored to call her friend, and am blessed to be able to attend these events at her delightful home.
   For those of you who came in late, "live foods" means "raw"; but raw fooders prefer the term "live foods" because it says so much more since uncooked food is alive with enzymes and all sorts of other good stuff that gets destroyed by cooking. There's tons of info about this on-line, so that's all the explanation you're gonna get here.
   Tonight's menu included spinach soup, walnut and salsa tacos, marinated mushrooms, sunflower seed cheese, carrot and daikon salad, avocado dip, carrot and ginger saurkraut, Amar's famous sprouted wheat crackers (at least I think they're wheat), a parsnip melange, a cut vegetable plate with carrots, celery, cucumber, and red peppers, plus several other dishes that I don't know what they're called and I'm not going to describe four other things for you either. Suffice it so say that it was quite a smorgasbord. And every dish was someone's favorite.
   There were about about 15 people there ranging in age from roughly 5- 65. Before the meal, Amar did a "uncooking class", teaching 6 or 7 people who came early how to make live food blondies and brownies (see photo above)... which we got to have for dessert after the meal!
    And after dessert, we all gathered in a circle on the rug, and I got to lead some cooperative games for about half an hour. We played Who's the Leader?, the B.F. Skinner Behavior Modification Game, Amateur Detective, Geography, and Everybody's It. And a good time was had by all.
 
P.S. If anyone in the area is interested in being on the invitation list to this event, just let me know via email (click the red "Contact" but on the left of this screen) and I'll send your email address to Amar and you'll receive Amar's email invite mid-April.


 Monday, March 29, 2010
 "Ben"
   My nephew Ben landed a great job near my daughter Myrrh's place fairly recently and is staying there in exchange for doing work on her place until he finds a place of his own. It's only about 45 minutes south of us in Windsor CT, and Myrrh is currently on a month and a half trip abroad, so we invited Ben to come over for dinner tonight.
   It was great to see him, and we had a lot of FUN talking, laughing, and sharing stories for a little over 3 hours, from just before dinner until about 9:00 (when Nancy turns into a pumpkin). In fact, it was such a nice visit, we're going to invite Ben back again in April!
 
 
 
       
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